{"id":55849,"date":"2025-08-22T12:28:04","date_gmt":"2025-08-22T12:28:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/psychologydictionary.ae\/ghosting-vs-rejection-which-hurts-more\/"},"modified":"2025-08-22T12:30:08","modified_gmt":"2025-08-22T12:30:08","slug":"ghosting-vs-rejection-which-hurts-more","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psychologydictionary.ae\/fr\/ghosting-vs-rejection-which-hurts-more\/","title":{"rendered":"Ghosting ou rejet : lequel fait le plus mal?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Presque toute personne ayant d\u00e9j\u00e0 v\u00e9cu un <strong>ghosting<\/strong> sait combien il est troublant de voir quelqu\u2019un dispara\u00eetre sans explication. Bien que des \u00e9tudes aient montr\u00e9 que le ghosting entra\u00eene des \u00e9motions n\u00e9gatives, la plupart reposaient sur des souvenirs d\u2019exp\u00e9riences pass\u00e9es, parfois d\u00e9form\u00e9s par le temps.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Une nouvelle \u00e9tude exp\u00e9rimentale<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Une recherche r\u00e9cente intitul\u00e9e <em>The Phantom Pain of Ghosting<\/em> (Telari et al., 2025), publi\u00e9e dans la revue <em>Computers in Human Behavior<\/em>, a adopt\u00e9 une approche innovante. Les chercheurs de l\u2019Universit\u00e9 de Milan-Bicocca ont cr\u00e9\u00e9 des situations r\u00e9elles dans lesquelles les volontaires \u00e9taient soit ghost\u00e9s, soit rejet\u00e9s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dans la premi\u00e8re exp\u00e9rience, 46 participants \u00e9changeaient quotidiennement avec un interlocuteur (en r\u00e9alit\u00e9 un assistant). Le quatri\u00e8me jour :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Ghosting<\/strong> : l\u2019assistant cessait toute r\u00e9ponse.<br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Rejet<\/strong> : l\u2019assistant d\u00e9clarait ne pas vouloir continuer puis arr\u00eatait.<br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Contr\u00f4le<\/strong> : la conversation continuait normalement.<br><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Une seconde exp\u00e9rience plus longue (9 jours) confirma ces r\u00e9sultats.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>R\u00e9sultats principaux<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Ghosting et rejet ont tous deux r\u00e9duit la satisfaction relationnelle et accru les sentiments d\u2019exclusion. Cependant, la <strong>confusion<\/strong> a persist\u00e9 beaucoup plus longtemps apr\u00e8s un ghosting, alors qu\u2019elle disparaissait rapidement apr\u00e8s un rejet clair.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Conclusion<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Selon les chercheurs, <strong>le ghosting est plus nocif que le rejet<\/strong>. Le rejet apporte une cl\u00f4ture, m\u00eame douloureuse, tandis que le ghosting laisse une incertitude persistante, prolongeant la souffrance \u00e9motionnelle.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Presque toute personne ayant d\u00e9j\u00e0 v\u00e9cu un ghosting sait combien il est troublant de voir quelqu\u2019un dispara\u00eetre sans explication. Bien que des \u00e9tudes aient montr\u00e9 que le ghosting entra\u00eene des \u00e9motions n\u00e9gatives, la plupart reposaient sur des souvenirs d\u2019exp\u00e9riences pass\u00e9es, parfois d\u00e9form\u00e9s par le temps. Une nouvelle \u00e9tude exp\u00e9rimentale Une recherche r\u00e9cente intitul\u00e9e The Phantom [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":55845,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[223],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55849","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-articles-de-presse"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/psychologydictionary.ae\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55849","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/psychologydictionary.ae\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/psychologydictionary.ae\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psychologydictionary.ae\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psychologydictionary.ae\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55849"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/psychologydictionary.ae\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55849\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":55852,"href":"https:\/\/psychologydictionary.ae\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55849\/revisions\/55852"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psychologydictionary.ae\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/55845"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/psychologydictionary.ae\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55849"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psychologydictionary.ae\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55849"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psychologydictionary.ae\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55849"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}